so I have always toyed with the idea of having a blog, because i just love reading about other peoples lives  what is  going on  eventually in there lives and all the good times  and bad times . Looking at there  pictures  i think a blog is like peeping into someones life from  a window  just because  you ca,.    oh  i didn't even introduce my self  my name is Ogechukwukanma  kristin Ukabam   my igbo name means Gods time is the  best which i totally belive is true.   Neways  back to the main reason for this  post   i always used to think i didn't have true friends or people who cared about me  until i learnt how to differentiate  from friends  and accquinatnces, a friend is some one who has your back no matter what , a friend is alway there even when is good or is bad . Your friends are like your second family they are always there to help you . Trust me i have had friends that have used me  just for there own good   and i know how  painful it is.  on the other hand an accquntance is some one u see  on the hall way say hi to and let them pass  you can always  just say hey how are u  or if you are in a bad mood  dont say anything   u meet people  for me it starts with  being just an accuintance till you get to that level of  friendship  sometimes  you  hit it off immediately or sometimes it takes for ever to hit off it  just doesnt happen for some  of your aquintances you guys just remain in that level of acquinatnces so yeah . it seems like a lot of  blabbing  neways am just starting  now let me  give  you guys the original gist that led to this post  so  someone annoyed me  and  i  just got really sad and all  put on bbm  that i was sad and  my real friends the ones that care about me pinged me  asking   what is wrong and all with comforting words i then realized that these are the people that will always  be there for me my friends